Embrace yourself to change your life

Nancysingh
2 min readNov 6, 2023

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Today I learnt a very beautiful lesson which made me realise few things that could change one’s life and make it happier

We jump to conclusions without even knowing the entire story

spreading a false version of it,

as saying goes that a coin has two faces,

always make sure to see both the face and then decide what’s right and what’s wrong

if you think the mistake is from both the ends,

let it be you are right, it was your way of seeing it, understanding it, atleast there was no second or a third person involved, so that you would regret and might say “I should not have listened to that person, his assumption made the bad person in his eyes”. You may use some other phrases too. But one’s you make the decision for yourself the blame is only on you, so just do what your heart feel is right, maybe it is wrong for the entire world, but you were jut frank with yourself, not needed to explain things to the world. You made your soul your bestfriend. So no matter who stays or who leaves, you will always stay by yourside.

People might think you are mad comforting yourself or talking to yourself. How does it matter? No one is gonna stay by your side.

Just for once when you are angry, or want to cry or want some one to listen to you without even judging you

sit in some quiet place, talk to yourself and if you love writing, write it down or as you prefer comfortable.

Just squeeze yourself , hold your hands tighly, say “I Love You, I will always stay by your side”. Cry out loud to yourrself, read what you wrote, cry if you need. Once all is vented out you will find that was too silly. Read that once again and loud, see yourself in mirror, I am sure this time you will be smiling and thinking how foolish you were, it was too simple to let everything go.

You know the best part was that there was no one there to judge you, advice you or go hand in hand with, it was just all of you.

Always remember no one in this world understands you more than you yourself. just be frank with yourself, love and take care of yourelf, see all the world around will start changing.

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Nancysingh
Nancysingh

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